A soul also CHOSES the circumstances and milieu that it incarnates with - it has to be in line with the SOUL LESSONS and the SOUL GROWTH, or the type of conditions the soul wants to EXPERIENCE!
This is very important! We often lament about our parents, or the circumstances into which we were born.... but we CHOSE that, for it was a LEARNING CURVE our soul desired BEFORE WE INCARNATED!
We chose our parents, because of the TOUGHNESS of the LESSONS we needed to master (that is with some of us), others chose their parents for the QUALITIES they could bring to their soul.... OR FOR PROVIDING THE PERFECT SET OF CONDITIONS for them to grow..... NO-THING HAPPENS BY ACCIDENT! IT IS ALL PART OF A PERFECT DESIGN!
Before birth a soul is asked what lessons it would like to master and it CHOOSES this... Sometimes the Guardians will point out the severity of the circumstances on this planet... and will warn the soul that it might take on too much... YET SOME SOULS CHOSE THIS AS THIS PLANET IT ONE OF GREATEST SCHOOL IN MASTERING SOUL LESSONS AND MOVING ONTO HIGHER STATES OF CONSCIOUSNESS... BEINGNESS!!!
A SOUL CHOSES ITS PARENTS, ITS COUNTRY AND PLACE OF BIRTH .... LONG BEFORE IT INCARNATES ONTO THIS PLANET!
PARENTING FOR THE NEW CHILDREN: part 2:
The Lessons of Parenthood can be summed up in one sentence: THE MASTERING OF THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND ACCEPTANCE!
From the moment of conception (and truly sensitive parents will both KNOW that moment that a child in conceived), the SOUL of the child is already there... starting to bond with the mother. It will be there from the moment the fetus is growing and developing.... it will bond to this with love and sending it high-frequency love waves....
This is why expecting mothers should try to nurture themselves and the precious life they are carrying as much as possible... In giving SELF-LOVE one is already learning the essence of LOVING in all its myriad of expressions.....
For the soul of a unborn child already KNOWS WHAT THE MOTHER IS THINKING, FEELING AND IF IT IS WANTED TO NOT! A lot of the feelings of abandonment, of not being loved, of being not wanted... stem from this time - the time BEFORE birth! If the parents of the child were fighting, or the pregnancy was not wanted, then the child will have problems adjusting to life - even before it was born!
This has been confirmed by Hynotherapists and Psychologists... and a lot of them use this method of trying to assist their patients in remembering trauma BEFORE, DURING AND AFTER BIRTH!
Thus the 9 months of pregnancy, are months of PREPARING THE SOUL FOR INCARNATION, as well as the mother and father for accepting the new addition to their lives.... This why bonding with the unborn child, by the stroking of the tummy... the sending of loving thoughts, the playing of beautiful, high-vibrational music, the talking with the child.... the bonding on so many levels, is already important.
The birthing process is also extremely stressful to the infant - the shock of being here on this planet is sometimes overwhelming... Water-births are the most stress-less of all birthing methods and the baby should, after birth, immediately be with the mother... incubators separate the child from the feeling of the mother and bonding truly with her...
Breastfeeding assist the bonding more than anything else.... Fathers who pick up the child and cradle it... let it sleep on his chest.... will help the child immensely.... The fragileness of a baby brings great feelings protectiveness, of care, of bonding.... It is in these moments that bonds are mostly formed..... For both parents the OUTER sight, sound and feel of the baby is a bonding on its own...
Of course the birth of a baby can be immensely stressful times for both partners... the constant waking up in the night... the sleeplessness.... the sudden time constrictions... the difference this makes to both of their lives....
One should guard against the children taking up the place of bonding and nurturing love between the partners, as this is where rifts already start appearing... and husbands sometimes start feeling left out, as some women start to get engrossed in the new baby.....
The bonding between a mother and child is mysterious, as it is essential. I am working with children who have very wealthy parents... but the children are being brought up by nannies and maids..... One can see the difference of those children, whose parents play an active role in their nurturing... and those who are left in the care of others! I can see it in the way these children CRAVE TOUCH, CRAVE ATTENTION and also, in the way THEIR MOTORING FUNCTIONS ARE DISFUNCTIONAL!
The first FIVE YEARS of a child is CRUCIAL! If the mother and father are both distant and absent in these years, then the child is already put into an ALIEN world, where he or she feels not wanted and not loved......
So many parents try to over-compensate for their absence by buying TOYS, GATGETS and anything else... when the child is quite happy to do without all of that... and just craves LOVE!!!
I have children tell me this over and over again! They have told me that they don’t WANT MONEY... THEY DON’T WANT GADGETS AND TOYS... THEY WANT MOMMY AND DADDY!
The health professions who deal with these children are picking this up. I have friends who are Social Nurses and Sisters, as well as Welfare Workers, telling me that children n resort to taking drugs, getting into the sex scenes, etc. because they CRAVE LOVE and ATTENTION! In a warped way, sometimes having TOO much money is leading them to seek LOVE elsewhere!
It is not that they will not put up fronts... they do! Shout their heads off at shopping centres because they WANT something.... when reality it often is that they feel the need for something deep inside of them, that they cannot express!
This is why I stress: What are your own priorities? Will you have time for your children?
From the word go, these new children will be extremely sensitive.... They will react to the environment... if the rooms in which they are put, even as a baby, disturb them in some way, they will end up crying.... Try to put high frequency sounds, music, colours in their rooms.... crystals, pictures of Unicorns.... nature...
I knew a granny, who in a great act of love for her grandchildren, painted the walls of their bedrooms with beautiful pictures of nature.... waterfalls, trees, animals.... amazing! She showed me their rooms, and it was like you were being transported into a magical wonder land! The kids LOVED it and they told me, that this was their DE-STRESS rooms, their own little sanctuaries... the eldest was twelve and the youngest three!
As babies, try to reconnect them with nature. These new children will be happiest in environments with have some greenery and beauty in some form or another. They come from planets and galaxies where life is abundant.... where all is in great harmony and balance... where nature and man live side by side and ENHANCE each other....
They are used to having lots of water and plants around them.... They are free spirits who naturally will hone into the elemental realms of the angels, faeries, the Unicorns.... They will see and sense things that you cannot see with your naked eye... the fact that you can’t see them, does not make them less real!
They will talk to these creatures, like imaginary friends.... They will laugh and play with them.... They will take delight in birds and butterflies... in creepy crawlies.... and their inquisitive natures will go into the garden, and explore it.... from touching the leaves of flowers and plants, to crawling after whatever engages their interest....
The more pets that they can bond with and learn to nurture and care for, the better. They love dogs, cats, rabbits, horses..... The fact that they receive so much unconditional love and acceptance from these creatures and give the same back, enhances their sense of belonging and well-being!
Part 3 tomorrow
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